The Contradictions of a Relationship Breakup
Why do I now hate the person with whom I was so intimate with before?
You don’t despise your partner because you don’t care for him or her anymore. When you despise someone to whom you have been close, you still have an emotional connection to that person. Indifference is the true opposite of love because it means there is no longer an emotional connection between you and your partner.
Only when you reach the place called indifference will you know that you are on the other side of the healing process. When you are indifferent to your ex-partner you will know that you’ve worked through the pain that you experienced in your relationship. You cannot will yourself to be indifferent, but you can certainly think of indifference as a goal you want to reach (Susan Pease Gadoua L.C.S.W., in Psychology Today)
This is where Counseling on Demand comes in. You need not go through this alone. Our Lead Online Counselor, Matthew Hunt, has pursued doctoral- level studies in attachment therapy and emotionally focused therapy (EFT) under the tutelage of the renowned Dr. Sue Johnson (International Centre for Excellence in EFT), a student of the notable Dr. Edward John Mostyn Bowlby (British psychologist, psychiatrist, and psychoanalyst). Matthew has used this knowledge in his 15+ years as a counselor. He can help you get beyond such negativity and onward toward the life you had hoped for.
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